Monday, July 14, 2008

In Japan, Buddhism May Be Dying Out

Published: July 14, 2008

OGA, Japan — The Japanese have long taken an easygoing, buffetlike approach to religion, ringing out the old year at Buddhist temples and welcoming the new year, several hours later, at Shinto shrines. Weddings hew to Shinto rituals or, just as easily, to Christian ones.

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When it comes to funerals, though, the Japanese have traditionally been inflexibly Buddhist — so much so that Buddhism in Japan is often called “funeral Buddhism,” a reference to the religion’s former near-monopoly on the elaborate, and lucrative, ceremonies surrounding deaths and memorial services.

But that expression also describes a religion that, by appearing to cater more to the needs of the dead than to those of the living, is losing its standing in Japanese society.

“That’s the image of funeral Buddhism: that it doesn’t meet people’s spiritual needs,” said Ryoko Mori, the chief priest at the 700-year-old Zuikoji Temple here in northern Japan. “In Islam or Christianity, they hold sermons on spiritual matters. But in Japan nowadays, very few Buddhist priests do that.”

Mr. Mori, 48, the 21st head priest of the temple, was unsure whether it would survive into the tenure of a 22nd.

“If Japanese Buddhism doesn’t act now, it will die out,” he said. “We can’t afford to wait. We have to do something.”

Across Japan, Buddhism faces a confluence of problems, some familiar to religions in other wealthy nations, others unique to the faith here.

The lack of successors to chief priests is jeopardizing family-run temples nationwide.

While interest in Buddhism is declining in urban areas, the religion’s rural strongholds are being depopulated, with older adherents dying and birthrates remaining low.

Perhaps most significantly, Buddhism is losing its grip on the funeral industry, as more and more Japanese are turning to funeral homes or choosing not to hold funerals at all.

Over the next generation, many temples in the countryside are expected to close, taking centuries of local history with them and adding to the demographic upheaval under way in rural Japan.

Here in Oga, on a peninsula of the same name that faces the Sea of Japan in Akita Prefecture, Buddhist priests are looking at the cold math of a population and local fishing industry in decline.

“It’s not an exaggeration to say that the population is about half of what it was at its peak and that all businesses have also been reduced by half,” said Giju Sakamoto, 74, the 91st head priest of Akita’s oldest temple, Chorakuji, which was founded around the year 860. “Given that reality, simply insisting that we’re a religion and have a long history — Akita’s longest, in fact — sounds like a fairy tale. It’s meaningless.

“That’s why I think this place is beyond hope,” Mr. Sakamoto said at his temple, which sits atop a promontory overlooking a seaside village.

To survive, Mr. Sakamoto has put his energies into managing a nursing home and a new temple in a growing suburb of Akita City. That temple, however, has drawn only 60 households as members since it opened a couple of years ago, far short of the 300 said to be necessary for a temple to remain financially viable.

For centuries, the average Buddhist temple, whose stewardship was handed down from father to eldest son, served a fixed membership, rarely, if ever, proselytizing. With some 300 households to cater to, the temple’s chief priest and his wife were kept fully occupied.

Not only has the number of temples in Japan been dipping — to 85,994 in 2006, from 86,586 in 2000, according to the Japanese Agency for Cultural Affairs — but membership at many temples has fallen.

“We have to find other jobs because the temple alone is not enough,” said Kyo Kon, 73, the head priest’s wife at Kogakuin, a temple here with 170 members. She used to work at a day care center while her husband was employed at a local land planning office.

Not far away at Doshoji, a temple whose membership has fallen to 85 elderly households, the chief priest, Jokan Takahashi, 59, was facing a problem familiar to most small family-run businesses in Japan: finding a successor.

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A graveyard at a Buddhist temple in Tokyo.

His eldest son had undergone the training to become a Buddhist priest, but Mr. Takahashi was ambivalent about asking him to take over the temple.

“My son grew up knowing nothing but this world of the temple, and he told me he did not feel free,” he said, explaining that his son, now 28, was working at a company in a nearby city. “He asked me to let him be free as long as I was working, and said that he would come back and take over by the time he turned 35.

“But considering the future, pressuring a young person to take over a temple like this might be cruel,” Mr. Takahashi said, after giving visitors a tour of his temple’s most important room, an inner chamber with wooden, lockerlike cabinets where, it is said, the spirits of his members’ ancestors are kept.

On a recent morning, Mr. Mori, the priest of the 700-year-old temple, began the day with a visit to a rice farming household marking the 33rd anniversary of a grandfather’s death. Bowing before the home altar, Mr. Mori prayed and chanted sutras. Later, he repeated the rituals at another household, which was commemorating the seventh anniversary of a grandfather’s death.

Increasingly, many Japanese, especially those in urban areas, have eschewed those traditions. Many no longer belong to temples and rely instead on funeral homes when their relatives die. The funeral homes provide Buddhist priests for funerals. According to a 2007 report by the Japan Consumers’ Association, the average cost of a funeral, excluding the cemetery plot, was $21,500, of which $5,100 covered services performed by a Buddhist priest.

As recently as the mid-1980s, almost all Japanese held funerals at home or in temples, with the local Buddhist priest playing a prominent role.

But the move to funeral homes has sharply accelerated in the last decade. In 1999, 62 percent still held funerals at home or in temples, while 30 percent chose funeral homes, according to the Consumers’ Association. But in 2007, the preferences were reversed, with 28 percent selecting funerals at home or in temples, and 61 percent opting for funeral homes.

In addition, an increasing number of Japanese are deciding to have their loved ones cremated without any funeral at all, said Noriyuki Ueda, an anthropologist at the Tokyo Institute of Technology and an expert on Buddhism.

“Because of that, Buddhist priests and temples will no longer be involved in funerals,” Mr. Ueda said.

He said Japanese Buddhism had been sapped of its spiritual side in great part because it had compromised itself during World War II through its close ties with Japan’s military. After Buddhist priests had glorified fallen soldiers and given them special posthumous Buddhist names, talk of pacifism sounded hollow.

Mr. Mori, the priest here, said that after the war there was a desire for increasingly lavish funerals with prestigious Buddhist names. These names — with the highest ranks traditionally given to those who have led honorable lives — are routinely purchased now, regardless of a dead person’s conduct in life.

“Soldiers, who gave their lives for the country, were given special posthumous Buddhist names, so everybody wanted one after that, and prices went up dramatically,” Mr. Mori said. “Everyone was getting richer, so everyone wanted one.

“But that gave us a bad image,” he said, adding that the price of the top name in Akita was about $3,000 — though that was a small fraction of the price in Tokyo.

Indeed, that image is reinforced by the way the business of funerals and memorial services is conducted. Fees are not stated and are left to the family’s discretion, and the relatives generally feel an unspoken pressure to be quite generous. Money is handed over in envelopes, and receipts are not given. Temples, with their status as religious organizations, pay no taxes.

It was partly to dispel this bad image that Kazuma Hayashi, 41, a Buddhist priest without a temple of his own, said he founded a company, Obohsan.com (obohsan means priest), three years ago in a Tokyo suburb. The company dispatches freelance Buddhist priests to funerals and other services, cutting out funeral homes and other middlemen.

Prices, which are at least a third lower than the average, are listed clearly on the company’s Web site. A 10 percent discount is available for members.

“We even give out receipts,” Mr. Hayashi said.

Mr. Hayashi argued that instead of divorcing Japanese Buddhism further from its spiritual roots, his business attracted more people with its lower prices. The highest-ranking posthumous name went for about $1,500, a rock-bottom price.

“I know that, originally, that’s not what Buddhism was about,” Mr. Hayashi said of the top name. “But it’s a brand that our customers choose. Some really want it, so that means there’s a strong desire there, and we have to respond to it.”

After apologizing for straying from Buddhism’s ideals, Mr. Hayashi said he offered his customers the highest-ranking name, albeit with a warning: “In short, that this is different from going to a shop in town and buying a handbag, you know, a Gucci bag.”

Saturday, July 05, 2008

From Pretty Boy to Action Star: Lee Jun-ki Changes Shape


Lee Jun-ki in SBS drama 'Iljimae.'/Courtesy of SBS
Guryepo Beach in southwest Taean, the site of the devastating oil spill late last year, is seeing a return of the crowds. It's the location of the SBS drama “Iljimae,” in which Lee Jun-ki (26) plays a man who is transformed from urchin Yongi to the chivalrous Iljimae.

"This chicken meat is so tough, my teeth nearly came out." Lee recites the line sitting in the corner of a seaside hut. In the scene, Iljimae, starving, cooks up a chicken behind his master's back, showing the human side of the valiant fighter. Then, at 9 p.m., the first short break after filming since the afternoon.

"I asked the director when I would finally get to shoot the action scenes which the viewers will be dying to see. But I'm still not flying about," says Lee. Iljimae's stunts were withheld until the 10th episode. The story centered instead on Yongi's training and his double life, which all serve to avenge his fathers' death. He was portrayed as a loose, comic character.

Lee became a star overnight in 2006 in the film “The King and the Clown” in which he played a man in woman's disguise. Now he wants to prove himself in an action role. "I shook off the memory of ‘The King and the Clown’ while doing the TV drama ‘Time Between Dog and Wolf’ last year. A comic role is a first for me, which is more difficult than being the leading man. I'm coasting on confidence alone."

In the original comic strip, lljimae disguises himself as a courtesan to obtain information from officials. Sounds familiar? But Lee shakes his head saying, "Will the viewers want to see me again dressed as a woman? I don't think so. I don't want to be a 'pretty boy’ again. But I don't know what the producers think.”

His physique is as pretty as his face. He's a taekwondo expert, but his body is far from brawny. "I don't want to be stuck in one shape. An actor's body should be formless, ready to change into any form. I don't like weight training. I like running about outdoors but not lifting heavy equipment in the stuffy indoors. It's not my style."

While filming “Time Between Dog and Wolf” last year, Lee said he has yet to be recognized as an actor. But his confidence has grown. "I believe more and more people are recognizing me as an actor and not just a celebrity."

(englishnews@chosun.com )

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

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Saturday, June 14, 2008

Biafra celebrates 50th with pair of concerts

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Angry and articulate, Jello Biafra has made as many enemies as influential records. Next week, the former singer of the Dead Kennedys turns 50, and he celebrates with a pair of concerts at the Great American Music Hall. He also celebrates a career that has seen the singer/raconteur/spoken-word artist lead the West Coast punk charge, run for political office and get beat down on more than one occasion.

Here are the highlights of that life and career:

1958: Eric Reed Boucher is born in Boulder, Colo. "My parents didn't hide reality," he says. "I watched cartoons and the news with equal fascination. I saw Oswald get shot live. I saw the Berlin Wall go up, and Vietnam was the best reality show in the history of television."

1977: Shortly before enrolling at UC Santa Cruz - for just one quarter - Biafra takes in live sets by early punk heroes like the Avengers, Wire and the Ramones. "Not only were they way louder than we thought they would be, but they scared the living daylights out of everyone in the room," he says. "The best part was they made it look much easier than it was."

1978: Earning enough money from doing laundry in a nursing home, Biafra moves to San Francisco and takes on his new moniker. He co-founds Dead Kennedys and, a week later, books the band at seminal San Francisco punk venue Mabuhay Gardens. "We wanted it to be as extreme as possible," Biafra says.

1979: The Dead Kennedys form the Alternative Tentacles label and release the underground hit "California Uber Alles." On a dare, Biafra launches a mayoral campaign in San Francisco and comes in fourth in a field of 10 candidates. The same year, he performs nude in front of 3,000 Clash fans, getting the band blacklisted by Bill Graham. "We had no problem attacking the industry," he says.

1980: Dead Kennedys mania hits. The band goes international as controversy brews around crude punk singles like "Too Drunk to F-" and "Nazi Punks F- Off." Alternative Tentacles helps ignite the American hard-core scene with releases by T.S.O.L., 7 Seconds and D.O.A. "The vision for the label is the same now as it was then: to provide an outlet for artists that want to operate outside of the industry," Biafra says.

1983-85: A series of guerrilla gigs sees the Dead Kennedys perform on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., and outside both the Republican and Democratic National Conventions. Rumblings from Tipper Gore's Parents' Music Resource Center signals trouble ahead.

1986: Biafra's home and offices are raided. The band, now defunct, is charged with distribution of harmful matter to minors. The matter in question is the Dead Kennedys' "Frankenchrist" album, which includes surrealist artwork by H.R. Giger depicting nine penises at climax. A criminal trial ends with a hung jury. Biafra and Gore later face off on "The Oprah Winfrey Show." "Right after that everything with my name on it was banned," Biafra says.

1988: The PRMC ordeal raises Biafra's status as a spoken-word artist, vaulting him onto the college lecture circuit as an expert on censorship. "I fought back and people dug that," he says.

1989: Biafra spends the next decade recording albums with various bands such as Lard and Nomeansno. His spoken-word releases get national attention, as do Alternative Tentacles releases by divisive figures like Mumia Abu-Jamal, Noam Chomsky and Angela Davis.

1994: The singer is attacked at Berkeley punk club 924 Gilman Street by a group of men who kick him on the ground shouting, "Sellout rock star!"

2000: Accused by his former bandmates for failing to sell out, accurately distribute royalties or promote their back catalog, Biafra is ordered to pay $220,000 in damages. The following year, he appeals the ruling. "That's still the great heartbreak of my life," he says. "That whole lawsuit was a scam over my not wanting 'Holiday in Cambodia' to be used in a Levi's commercial."

2005: Biafra records "Sieg Howdy!" with members of the Melvins. He credits himself as J Lo on the sleeve. "If I go without rock for too long, I feel depressed," he says. "I saw the Stooges at the Warfield on Iggy's 60th birthday, so I figured I've got to get something together for my 50th."

Biafra Five-O with Jello Biafra and the Melvins 8 p.m. Mon.-Tues. $22 ($40 both nights). Great American Music Hall, 859 O'Farrell St., San Francisco. (415) 885-0750, www.gamh.com.

E-mail Aidin Vaziri at avaziri@sfchronicle.com.

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This article appeared on page E - 3 of the San Francisco Chronicle

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Japanese swimmers likely to get OK to use Speedo swimsuits in Olympics

Japanese swimmers from left, Reiko Nakamura, Takeshi Matsuda, Kosuke Kitajima, Haruka Ueda, and Yoshihiro Okumura, appear in Speedo swimsuits at the Japan Open on Friday.
Japanese swimmers from left, Reiko Nakamura, Takeshi Matsuda, Kosuke Kitajima, Haruka Ueda, and Yoshihiro Okumura, appear in Speedo swimsuits at the Japan Open on Friday.

The Japan Swimming Federation appears likely to lift a ban on the use of Speedo swimsuits for Japanese Olympic athletes, after five national records were broken Friday by competitors wearing the swimsuit manufacturer's LZR Racer suits.

New national records were set in five of the 10 finals at the Japan Open on Friday, all by swimmers wearing the LZR Racer. The swimming federation has not permitted the use of Speedo's swimsuits in the upcoming Olympic Games in Beijing, instead having swimmers choose from three manufacturers whom it has contracts. However, it appears certain that the federation will give Speedo suits the green light at a board of directors meeting on Tuesday.

In the Japan Open at Tokyo Tatsumi International Swimming Center on Friday, Kosuke Kitajima set a new national record of 59.44 seconds in the final of the men's 100-meter breaststroke, beating his own record set three years earlier. In the final of the women's 200 meter freestyle, meanwhile, Haruka Ueda broke a national record that had stood for nine years.

Other national record breakers wearing the LZR Racer were Takeshi Matsuda in the men's 200 meter butterfly, Reiko Nakamura in the women's 100 meters backstroke, and Yoshihiro Okumura in the men's 200 meter freestyle.

Speaking on the run of new national records, Koji Ueno, manager of Japan's national team, said the LZR had produced a good response. He said his concern was for the athletes who belonged to other companies (such as Mizuno), suggesting that the Japan Swimming Federation would move in the direction of allowing Speedo's swimsuits.

Norimasa Hirai, a national team coach who coaches Kitajima has gone as far as to assert, "If swimmers don't wear the LZR Racer, they won't be able to compete in Beijing Olympics" in terms of performance.

The five swimmers who produced national records all wore swimsuits produced by Japanese manufacturers during the qualifying rounds. Ai Shibata, who won a gold medal in the 800 meters freestyle at the 2004 Olympic Games wore a swimsuit that a Japanese manufacturer had improved at the request of the Japan Swimming Federation, but failed to produce an outstanding time.

At present, Japan's Olympic swimmers are supposed to choose from swimsuits provided by three manufacturers with which the Japan Swimming Federation has contracts: Mizuno, Descente and Asics. However, calls for swimmers to adopt the LZR Racer have arisen since foreign swimmers wearing the suits have broken world records.

"The Speedo suit is great, as the results show," Kitajima said. "I've worn Mizuno swimsuits for many years, so I also want them to try their best."

(Mainichi Japan) June 7, 2008

Sunday, June 08, 2008

Music Videos

Michiro Endo Stalin Water Sister

Clash Know your rights US Festival 83

System Of A Down - Lonely Day

Soft Ballet - ?whole the whole?

BUCK-TICK/TRIGGER

Wayne County and the Electric Chairs- Putty (1978)

Four on the Floor - Boys

T.S.O.L - "Code Blue" (Live) - Frontier Records

DRY & HEAVY - Rumble (Live 2004.09.03)

[LIVE]StonySkunk- Ragga Muffin

Dogggystyle - Weelin' Of The Nation (Live 2003)

this was yesterday's reads

North Cornwall fairies and legends ([1906])

The Brahmans, theists and Muslims of India. Studies of goddess-worship in Bengal, caste, Brahmaism and social reform, with descriptive sketches of curious festivals, ceremonies, and faquirs (1907)

Tammuz and Ishtar : a monograph upon Babylonian religion and theology containing extensive extracts from the Tammuz liturgies and all of the Arbela oracles (1914)

Serpent-worship, and other essays : with a chapter on totemism (1888)

Totem and taboo; resemblances between the psychic lives of savages and neurotics (1918, t.p. 1919)

The origin of man and of his superstitions (1920)

Social origins (1903)

Read a book

Amurru, the home of the Northern Semites, a study showing that the religion and culture of Israel are not of Babylonian origin (1909)

The Babylonian story of the Deluge and the Epic of Gilgamish : with an account of the Royal Libraries of Nineveh (1920)

Bel, the Christ of ancient times (1908)

Bible and the monuments : the primitive Hebrew records in the light of modern research (1895)

The expectations formed by the Assyrians, that a great deliverer would appear, about the time of Our Lord's advent, demonstrated .. (1826)

Saturday, June 07, 2008

Earliest Londoners Arrived Earlier, Had Wealth

Jennifer Viegas, Discovery News

June 6, 2008 -- London's Covent Garden district, formerly the Anglo Saxon city of Lundenwic, is at least 100 years older than previously thought, based on analysis of skeletons and objects found in the region's oldest Anglo Saxon cemetery, which was recently discovered.

Instead of being founded in 650 A.D., as was earlier believed, archaeologists now think Lundenwic dates to 550 A.D. or earlier, according to a report published today in British Archaeology.

Lundenwic also appears to have been relatively wealthy and cosmopolitan from its first days, based on the quality of artifacts found in the graves.

"These were not elite or royal individuals, but they would have been middle to high class, as their objects were quite nice," Melissa Melikian, who worked on the project, told Discovery News.

"In the grave of an adult woman, for example, we found a silver disc brooch set with cut garnets," added Melikian, general manager of Britain's AOC Archaeology Group southern region.

She and her colleagues found the cemetery during an excavation underneath the London Transport Museum, which extended its basement in order to put in a new shop and gallery. The archaeologists unearthed 10 cremation burials, most of which were placed in urns.

The scientists also discovered three adults buried together. Radiocarbon testing dates them to between 410 A.D. and 550 A.D., so the newly established 550 A.D. date for Lundenwic's emergence takes the more conservative number.

The bodies all belonged to Anglo Saxons -- a people believed to be descendants of three Germanic tribes who settled in south and east Great Britain during the 5th century A.D. Based on the recent and prior Lundenwic finds, historians think the Anglo Saxons established the city as an industrial trading center on the north bank of the Thames, between what is now Trafalgar Square and Aldwych.

According to Mike Pitts, an archaeologist and publisher of British Archaeology, the Roman town of Londinium was already based to the east of Lundenwic. Both cities were eventually "swallowed up in the vast metropolis" that is modern London.

Items found at the Lundenwic grave, including a fine pair of tweezers and a necklace once strung with 19 amber beads and a colorful, swirled glass bead, provide further evidence of the trade and craft activities that were taking place very early on at the site.

Lyn Blackmore, a pottery and sciences specialist at the Museum of London, who is one of the world's leading experts on early London history, told Discovery News that the tweezers likely belonged to a male, since "Anglo Saxon men tended to be buried with tweezers."

"We don't know why," she added. "Perhaps they were used to groom mustaches, or they could have even been included in the burials for unknown symbolic reasons."

The woman's skeleton in the collective burial, according to Melikian, reveals that this person died between the ages of 25-36, suffered from some arthritis and had healed broken ribs and dental cavities. Her cause of death remains unknown but, Lundenwic's inhabitants were often the targets of raids.

"The city experienced a sharp economic downturn and shrinkage at the end of the 8th century, due to Viking raiders coming down from the north," Blackmore said. "Lundenwic was a completely undefended, open site."

According to both Blackmore and Pitts, most of Lundenwic's residents after that devastating raid likely fled to Londinium, which still had its old Roman walls, "presumably still crumbling a bit," intact, to offer at least some protection.

The ancient city divisions are still evident in the character of England's capital city today. The old Roman town of Londinium became London's business center, otherwise known as the City of London, while Covent Garden is now dominated by shopping and entertainment facilities.

Crows - Episode 0

Crows Zero

The cool, the bad and the ugly:
A class photo for Takashi Miike's teen action drama Crows Zero.
Movie review here.

Man Falls After Receiving Spirit, Sues

Claims church liable for injuries sustained during healing service

JUNE 5--Last June, Matthew Lincoln was attending an evening service at his nondenominational Tennessee church when he approached the altar where a visiting minister was offering individual prayers for parishioners. Assigned "catchers" were present on the altar in case congregants fainted, fell, or otherwise lost control. When the minister, Robert Lavala, slightly touched his forehead, the Knoxville-area man "received the spirit and fell backwards." Except nobody was there to catch him, Lincoln charges in a $2.5 million lawsuit filed yesterday against Lakewind Church and its pastors. Lincoln, 58, claims that he fell backwards, striking his head against the "carpet-covered cement floor," according to the Circuit Court complaint, which was first reported by Courthouse News Service. A copy of Lincoln's lawsuit can be found below. Since he already suffered from a "degenerative disc disease of his neck and back," Lincoln, a former church board member, contends the fall exacerbated the pre-existing condition and has caused him "severe and permanent" injuries. As a result of the fall, Lincoln, a recording engineer, claims that he is no longer able to care for his disabled daughter. Lincoln alleges that Lakewind and its pastors were "negligent in not supervising the catchers to be sure that they stood behind the person being prayed for...should they have a dizzying, fainting, or falling in the spirit as had occurred on many occasions before." Lincoln's lawyer, J.D. Lee, told TSG that the church's insurer, Zurich of North America, rejected an insurance claim, asserting that Lincoln should have realized that no catchers were situated behind him. (5 pages)

Saturday, May 31, 2008

'Hedwig' returns freestyle

Mega-hit rock musical "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" will run for a fourth season starting late June, production company Shownote announced.

But there will be a twist this season: Six different actors will take on the title role, each for three to six weeks at a time. All the Hedwigs will be completely different from the others, with outfits, make-up, and even lights personalized to fit and reinforce each Hedwig, the production company said.

Shownote added that five of the Hedwigs will be from past performances. Auditions will be held for the last actor.

Starting off "Hedwig-Freestyle" are two former Hedwigs: Kim Da-hyun, lead vocalist of rock band Yada and dubbed the "prettiest" Hedwig; and Song Yong-jin, lead vocalist of the band Cuba, who is regarded as the most provocative and passionate Hedwig.

Since its Korean premiere in 2005, the musical, whose protagonist is a transgender singer, has been a huge success, contrary to naysayers who thought that Koreans would find the subject uncomfortable.

Almost every performance was sold out, with ardent fans going over and over again. In its first season in 2005, the musical was also nominated for eight categories in the Korea Musical Awards, hosted by Sports Chosun.

"Hedwig" tells the tale of a transgender singer from East Germany who overcomes disappointment from a botched sex change operation and failed love life, finding healing through rock music.

The "angry inch" in the title is a reference to what she was left with after the operation, as well as the attitudes of people toward her.

The fourth season of "Hedwig" will be preceded by "Hedwig Concert," in which the cast performs songs from the musical.

The concert will feature John Cameron Mitchell, who created the show and played the original "Hedwig," and actor Oh Man-suk, one of Korea's most popular former Hedwigs.

Mitchell took part in "Hedwig Concert 2007" after seeing Oh's interpretation of Hedwig on Youtube. It was the first time that Mitchell performed as Hedwig outside the United States.

Oh and Mitchell will separately sing around a dozen songs from the musical, then take the stage together in a joint performance. The new Hedwig and other special guests will also be featured.

"Hedwig Concert" is slated for June 17 at the Olympic Hall in Olympic Park, eastern Seoul. Tickets are 55,000 won and 77,000 won.

The freestyle version of "Hedwig and the Angry Inch" will kick off its fourth run from June 27 at KT&G Sang Sang Art Hall in Samseong-dong, southern Seoul. Tickets cost between 45,000 won and 55,000 won. For more information, call (02) 501-7888.

By Koh Young-aah

(youngaah@heraldm.com)



2008.05.27

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Pa. professor leads 'Buffy the Vampire' study

on May 19, 7:22 PM ET

COLLEGEVILLE, Pa. - A professor at Ursinus College in suburban Philadelphia thinks "Buffy the Vampire Slayer" is worthy of serious academic study.

The TV show went off the air in 2003, but Professor Lynne Edwards is still leading scholarship about it. She edits Watcher Junior, an online journal of undergraduate research into "Buffy" and its spinoff series, "Angel." And she's the editor of a book, "Buffy Goes Dark," which is to be published in September.

Edwards is far from the only academic with an interest in the show. The third academic conference dedicated to "Buffy" is planned in June at Henderson State University in Arkansas.

Oral sex isn't keeping kids virgins

Study contradicts myth of how teens avoid intercourse

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Contrary to popular belief, teens do not appear to commonly engage in oral sex as a way to preserve their virginity, according to the first study to examine the question nationally.

The analysis of a federal survey of more than 2,200 males and females ages 15 to 19, released Monday, found that more than half reported having had oral sex. But those who described themselves as virgins were far less likely to say they had tried it than those who had had intercourse.

"There's a popular perception that teens are engaging in serial oral sex as a strategy to avoid vaginal intercourse," said Rachel Jones of the Guttmacher Institute, a research organization in New York, who helped conduct the study. "Our research suggests that's a misperception."

Instead, the study found that teens tend to become sexually active in many ways at about the same time. For example, although only 1 in 4 teen virgins had engaged in oral sex, within six months after their first intercourse more than 4 out of 5 adolescents reported having oral sex.

"That suggests that oral and vaginal sex are closely linked," said Jones, whose findings will be published in the July issue of the Journal of Adolescent Health. "Most teens don't have oral sex until they have had vaginal sex."

Proponents of sex education programs that focus on abstinence said the findings debunked the criticism that the approach was inadvertently prompting more teens to have oral sex, which still carries the risk of sexually transmitted disease, in order to preserve their virginity.

If anything, the findings support the need to encourage more teens to delay sexual activity of all kinds, said Valerie Huber, executive director of the National Abstinence Education Association.

"This report reveals that teen sex - even with a condom - presents significant risk for future sexual experimentation and so underscores the need for redoubled emphasis on abstinence education for teens," she said. "Only abstinence education adequately addresses this problem."

But critics of abstinence programs said the findings reinforced the need for comprehensive sex education, because teens engage in a wide variety of sexual activities, all of which carry risks for the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.

"More than half of our teens are having sex - vaginal and oral," said James Wagoner, president of the group Advocates for Youth. "We can't afford the luxury of denial. Abstinence-only programs are the embodiment of denial. They have been proven not to work, and it's time to invest in real sex education, including condoms."

Others praised the research for providing much-needed data in the often highly polarized debate over teenage sexuality.

"We have these images of oral sex parties, but it's not based on evidence. It's not based on research," said Claire Brindis, a professor of pediatrics and health policy at UC San Francisco. "A study like this allows us to begin to dissect what actually is going on."

The new study analyzed data collected from a nationally representative sample of 1,150 females and 1,121 males ages 15 to 19 who were questioned in detail in 2002 as part of the federal government's National Survey of Family Growth.

A majority of the teens - 55 percent - said they had engaged in oral sex, which was slightly more than the 50 percent who said they had had vaginal sex. But oral sex was much more common among those who already had had intercourse: 87 percent of those who reported on a computerized survey that they had had vaginal sex said they had engaged in oral sex as well, compared with 23 percent who described themselves as virgins.

When the researchers examined the number of partners the teens reported, they found that among those who reported engaging in oral sex, 67 percent had only one partner, "another piece of evidence that there's not a lot of teens engaging in serial oral sex," Jones said.

This article appeared on page A - 4 of the San Francisco Chronicle

Gay wedding for Star Trek's Takei


George Takei
Takei appeared in the popular TV series Heroes last y

US actor George Takei is to wed his long-term partner after California lifted its ban on same-sex marriage.

Takei, 71, best known for playing Mr Sulu in Star Trek, said he and Brad Altman were going through the "delicious dilemma" of where to marry.

The actor and 54-year-old Mr Altman have been together for 21 years.

"We can have the dignity, as well as all the responsibilities, of marriage. We embrace it all heartily," Takei wrote on his website.

'Good times'

Takei, who recently appeared in the popular US TV series Heroes, added: "We've worked in partnership; he manages the business side of my career and I do the performing.

"We've travelled the world together from Europe to Asia to Australia. We've shared the good times as well as struggled through the bad.

"He helped me care for my ailing mother who lived with us for the last years of her life. He is my love and I can't imagine life without him."

On Thursday, California's Supreme Court said the "right to form a family relationship" applied to all Californians regardless of sexuality.

But opponents of the decision said they would seek an amendment to the state constitution, which would override the ruling.

Following the Supreme Court's decision to legalise same-sex marriage, comedian Ellen DeGeneres announced plans to marry her girlfriend, actress Portia de Rossi.

Sunday, May 04, 2008

What's left of my sister's truck

The stupid prick who did this was - speeding, drunk (not his first DUI), no insurance (are you surprised?) & being followed by undercover cops!! Luckily no one was killed!

AAAUUGGHH! I want over half the cast to get abducted by aliens & not returned after probing - they are so freaking annoying!!

"Likable or Not" Reach Highest Drama Ratings since 2000

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Sunday, April 20, 2008

AT DINNER WITH: Nell Campbell and Matilda Roche; A Diva Enters, With Marabou And Mashed Potatoes

Published: April 9, 2003

UPSTAGING Nell Campbell is no small trick. Amateurs need not apply. Famous for so many things -- dancing on the tables at Nell's, her club that set the gold standard for New York night life in the 1980's; tap-dancing her way into cult film history in ''The Rocky Horror Picture Show'' -- but mostly famous for just being famous, this redhead with the Cleopatra bob and the killer legs makes her Broadway debut tomorrow in ''Nine,'' with Antonio Banderas. A supporting role, to be sure, but as she announced with dramatic flourish, ''I want you to know I make every moment on that stage count.''

Undoubtedly. But on a recent Monday, her one night off from treading the boards, or at least rehearsing to tread, she came to dinner at Sherwood Café, near her home in Boerum Hill, Brooklyn. It is a funkily ornate place done up like an antiques shop; you can eat, drink and buy most of the scenery. Its huge chandelier recalls the one at Nell's, whose décor, Ms. Campbell once said, ''looked like the drawing room of a dissolute English aristocrat, elegant and romantic in a faded way, not unlike myself.''

But with her club days over (she sold Nell's years ago) she runs with a slightly different crowd now. Her most frequent dinner companion prefers to eat at 6 p.m. and is often asleep by 7:30 p.m. An up-and-coming ingénue herself, with soft brown hair and big blue eyes, she has no regard for the unwritten rule that when Ms. Campbell enters a room, all eyes must be on her. Matilda Roche, age 4, has seen her mother's act, mastered it, and developed one of her own. So when her mother agreed to talk about her transformation from club diva to borough mom (who just happens to be acting in her first Broadway musical), a bit of negotiation lay in store.

''Spot the showgirl, which do you think?'' Ms. Campbell chirped, when the two arrived. Matilda wore what her mother called her fairy outfit, a shocking pink dress with a full net skirt dotted with balls of pink marabou. Ms. Campbell brushed her daughter's hair, wrapping the half-ponytail with an elastic dotted with its own ball of marabou.

''Darling, it's all about coordination,'' she said as Matilda struggled against the brush. ''A fairy who's badly coordinated, I don't believe can fly.'' Matilda looked up. ''I can't fly,'' she said flatly. Ms. Campbell laughed. ''We're working on that,'' she said.

Ah, Matilda. What was going through her mind? Too much attention? Too much distraction? After all, a girl's got a right to sit with her own mother and have a private dinner as she usually does here, without some lady taking notes and some man hovering with a camera. Not to mention that she had just received this amazing care package from her aunt in Australia, with a beautiful blond Barbie doll and a Barbie and Ken cellphone that came in its own bright pink backpack, but no one was paying any attention to that.

''Dial Ken and see if he'd like to join us for a drink,'' Ms. Campbell suggested in her distinctive voice, a clipped combination of Australian and English accents, as she sat down to be photographed. The camera snapped. Matilda hid her face. ''Darling, don't be like that, just be normal,'' Ms. Campbell said. Matilda threw down her backpack. ''Matilda, be sweet, '' her mother implored. ''She's n-e-r-v-o-u-s,'' she added. Another snap. Matilda did not like that, and she most definitely did not like being spelled about. Her hands went back up.

''Maybe we'll just keep you out of this, darling,'' Ms. Campbell said lightly, standing. ''Some of us are born to be photographed, and some are not.'' She headed to the front of the restaurant. Matilda considered her backpack. Upon further investigation, two important factors emerged: for some reason, Matilda was convinced that the photographer did not like her dress, and more important, she was hungry.

Once Ms. Campbell was notified of these bulletins, she immediately ordered Matilda's dinner: thinly sliced salami with olives and cornichons to start, then roast chicken with mashed potatoes and string beans. The photographer, crushed to discover that he might have insulted the pretty young lady, spoke ardently of her dress, and she oh-so-reluctantly came to the front of the restaurant and agreed to try again.

The salami appeared in a flash and Matilda folded each piece around a pickle or an olive like a pro. She drank her Shirley Temple through a straw, intermittently blowing bubbles into it. When the chicken arrived, Ms. Campbell cut it, and Matilda finally laid Barbie on the table to rest.

''Since she was old enough to eat, I have fed Matilda exactly what Eamon and I ate,'' Ms. Campbell said, referring to Matilda's father, Eamon Roche, from whom she is amicably separated. The two live half a block from each other, which makes Matilda's life easier. ''She's always been a really good eater,'' Ms. Campbell went on, brushing Barbie's hair away from the plate. ''Japanese, Indian and Thai curries, Vietnamese, Italian. Recently, she stopped eating fish and mushrooms, but I think it's the smell.''

As she spoke, she ate string beans off Matilda's plate with her fingers. ''I adore cooking, food is of vital importance to me,'' she said. But like anyone about to make her Broadway debut, she was finding her costumes even more vitally important. So talking about eating was the next best thing. ''For breakfast Matilda either has muesli with yogurt, bananas and fresh-squeezed orange juice in it, or we make smoothies with fresh fruit and yogurt,'' she said.

Matilda looked interested. ''Sometimes we have toast and hot chocolate,'' she added. Ms. Campbell smiled. ''Yes, but it's chocolate from Jacques Torres, that very bitter chocolate which I shave with a vegetable peeler, then add a little sugar. I'm a chocoholic but a shocking snob. It has to be the darkest Belgian.''

And what about lunch? ''I make her lunch every day for school,'' Ms. Campbell said.

What does she make?

''Salads!'' Matilda shouted. ''And they're good, really lovely.'' Like most people, Matilda was much better company having eaten something.

What's in the salads?

Matilda tried to remember. ''Olives,'' her mother prompted. ''And roasted peppers. I love roasting peppers.''

Matilda covered Ms. Campbell's mouth with her hand. ''I'll tell the rest,'' she said, listing lettuce; tomatoes, which she pronounced to-MAH-toes; capers; and feta.

''She's such a good eater, she also loves anchovies,'' Ms. Campbell said. ''I didn't eat them until I was 25.''

Matilda smiled beatifically at her mother. ''Am I being good?'' she asked. ''You're being very good, darling,'' Ms. Campbell assured her. She knows all about fielding the press at a young age; her father, Ross Campbell, a writer for The Daily Telegraph in Sydney, turned out a weekly column on family life that featured the adventures of his son and three daughters, who became instant local celebrities.

Did Ms. Campbell ever feel it was an invasion of privacy? ''Not at all,'' she said, laughing. ''I was thrilled to get a mention.''

When her father was transferred to London, the family went with him; Ms. Campbell was 18. She earned her living singing and dancing on street corners from Hyde Park to Paris to the South of France. During a stint as a singing and dancing waitress at a Knightsbridge restaurant, the director of the stage version of ''Rocky Horror'' spotted her tap-dancing and cast her. It was on that show that she befriended the spotlight operator, Keith McNally, who later moved to New York and opened Odeon and Cafe Luxembourg. Ms. Campbell worked briefly at both places as a maître d'hôtel before opening Nell's in 1986. A few years back, she was a co-owner of E&O, an Asian restaurant in the East Village, and Kiosk, an American restaurant on the Upper East Side, both of which she and her partners sold.

''I can't see doing that again,'' she said, eating chicken off Matilda's plate. ''The service industry is a 24-hour job.''

Matilda was unamused. ''Why are you snacking on my food?'' she asked.

Ms. Campbell waved her hand for a waitress. ''Because I'm a starving woman,'' she said. ''I'm going to have the chicken and couscous, what the hell?''

Most nights, Ms. Campbell said she cooks dinner for herself and Matilda. What does Matilda really like?

''Hamburger!'' she exclaimed. Ms. Campbell smiled. ''Yes,'' she said, ''I make a mean hamburger in a very hot pan with salt, oregano and dried mustard, medium rare. I'm a bit of a meat snob, too. I just think organic tastes better.''

At her butcher she also buys meat for Mr. Roche's dog, Ozzie, and cooks him a batch each week. ''I get a few big bones, chicken legs and thighs, hamburger meat, roast it all at high heat, avoid the temptation to add herbs, and when Eamon feeds him, he puts some into the dog's healthy food every day so it's more delicious,'' she said.

Her own hope of eating seemed to be dwindling. Even though it was only 7:15, the place was packed and the waitress was AWOL. If she ditched the dinner and went home, what would she make? ''Well, the other night after the show I was starving, and I sautéed baby potatoes with rosemary,'' she said. ''I adore potatoes.'' So, no low-carb diet for her? She looked distressed. ''Nooo,'' she said. ''I'm not very good at that sort of thing, organized foods.''

Matilda, who had eaten like a champion and never even asked for dessert, had crossed over from post-dinner grace to pre-bedtime crankiness. Whatever Ken had said on the phone hadn't pleased her; she hurled it to the floor. ''Darling, be gentle,'' Ms. Campbell said, getting up to find the check and take her dinner to go.

When she came back -- the food wasn't quite ready -- she sat on the banquette and gathered Matilda and her phone beside her. The light from the street shone on her face, which looked the tiniest bit drawn. At moments like these, does she miss the free-wheeling glamour of her former life?

''Darling, my life is glamorous whether at home or the theater,'' she said gamely. ''I never liked the club hours. It wasn't my natural choice to miss daytime. Now, my favorite thing is having people to dinner or having dinner at other people's houses. I go to the opera or ballet, and I love going to the theater. One's priorities change. Tilda entertains me. We read a lot together.''

She smiled down at Matilda, who had apparently forgiven Ken, and, nestled in the crook of her mother's arm, was telling him about dinner. Ms. Campbell gave her a squeeze. ''You make your own glamour,'' she said.

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A Titanic production

Titus Andronicus
Titus Andronicus

A Titanic production

By Elaine McFadyen
Titus Andronicus – The Japanese Way: Ninewagwa's stylised cross-cultural production of Shakespeare's bloody tragedy takes the audience deep into a nightmare well of rape, revenge, mutilation, murder and cannibalism.

What the audience said

"It was fabulous - everything about it, the whole concept" - Shirley from Newton Ferrers

"Fantastic, the style, staging and the elegance, I thought it was absolutely amazing" - Jane from Noss Mayo.

"It was the most stunning stage production I've seen for a long time. Completely compelling with great performances, and a fantastic set. It deserved the standing ovation it received." - Sue from Plymouth.

Titus Andronicus
Theatre Royal, Plymouth
Until 1st July
Tickets: £10-£22
Box Office: 01752 257622

Hugely energetic and physical, the vast cast pulls no punches telling the tale of the victorious Roman General Andronicus and Tamora, the defeated Queen of the Goths.

Scene from Titus Andronicus
Kotaro Yoshida as Andronicus

Even though all the blood is symbolically shown with flowing red silk ribbons and severed heads and limbs are non-realistic, the relentless violence still hits you hard.

In the title role as the grizzled war veteran is Kotaro Yoshida, Japan's leading Shakespearean actor, along with the stunning Rei Asami as the vengeful Queen.

Producer Thelma Holt has described Tamora as pure Joan Collins and the Queen certainly is a venomous woman!

Designer Lily Komine dresses her in elegant slender white gowns and inky black feathers, with perfectly arched eyebrows and gore red lipstick. Like the Lady in the "Scottish Play", while the men charge into bloody action, she quietly contrives and manipulates her way to vengeance.

Pin-up Pretty…but Vile

Titus Andronicus
Shun Oguri and Rei Asami as Aaron and Tamora

Shun Oguri as Aaron her lover held me spell bound. In a very lively performance, he leaps and runs across the stage proudly exposing his tattooed torso.

He glares and stares with completely OTT villainy, while spewing torrents of vengeful, unrepentant dialogue… which you will either love or loathe…I loved it!

With a cast of 30, the production is very loud and aggressive and it is hard work for the audience who have to read sur-titles while listening to fiercely staccato Japanese dialogue and not missing any of the extreme visual drama of the production...but it's worth it, believe me.

The director makes inventive use of the whole stage area and the cast often enters running in from the aisles and stairs. Warning!… if you are in the front rows you might feel just a bit too close to the action as the orchestra pit is covered by steps to extend the stage and you will be inches away from the performers.

Ninegawa's Titus Andronicus is operatic in its scale and I feel very privileged to have seen it here in Plymouth. The Theatre Royal’s relationship with Thelma Holt means we get to feast on such treats right here while the rest of the UK has to go to Stratford.

Often conservative in their applause, the appreciative house was on its feet and gave the cast the resounding ovation it had earned.

last updated: 30/06/06

Thursday, April 17, 2008

About a penis: To cut or not to cut

Local author and filmmaker Paul Festa's experience in an S.F. circumcision study has Violet Blue examining a sensitive debate

Violet Blue, special to SF Gate

Thursday, April 17, 2008
When my longtime friend and writing colleague (and local filmmaker) Paul Festa took the stage for the "Best Sex Writing 2008" (Cleis Press) reading featuring West Coast authors, I was prepared to giggle at whatever he was reading. After all, this was the guy who made an incident-gone-wrong hook-up with an unnamed gay Hollywood actor at the Castro Theatre into a comi-tragedy in his "Best Sex Writing 2005" debut.

From his essay "How Insensitive," Festa began:

"Late in the summer of 2005, I visited a nondescript medical office in San Francisco's fog belt, lay down on an examination table, and had eleven regions of my penis poked by various gauges of monofilament. It wasn't quite what I'd envisioned when I signed up for the Penile Sensitivity Touch-Test Evaluation Study — "Touch Test" had conjured something a little sexier than a retired MD coming at me with medical-grade fishing line. But by the age of 35, the human penis is nothing if not well schooled in disappointment, and so, for the good of science, I went through with the exam.

"The science in this case concerned one of the most controversial and common medical procedures practiced in the West: circumcision of the penis. The study, published in the April 2007 BJU International (the former British Journal of Urology) under the title "Fine Touch Pressure Thresholds in the Adult Penis," is the latest research salvo on the war for the neonatal foreskin."

Some people did laugh at the first bit, and it was impossible not to chuckle at the mention of "BJU International" (a profitable porn blog waiting to happen if the URL isn't already, ahem, choked with offerings). And I'll admit that my mind ran immediately in the other gender direction of Festa's unrequited hot sensitivity touch fantasy, imagining myself with a hot UCSF boy in scrubs and gloves, feigning ignorance at which area of the clitoris is most responsive to sensation. But circumcision, and the decisions around it, has become a depressing and disturbing world war of dick politics, debate and sometimes conflicting data.

For instance, the Wikipedia article on male circumcision (NSFW) is locked and editing is disabled due to vandalism. While presenting information from the World Health Organization, UNAIDS and the Centers for Disease Control, it also presents articles by both Circumcision Information and Resource Page (CIRP, anti-circumcision) and the Circumcision Reference Library (CIRCS, pro-circumcision). It seems that no matter where you stand on foreskin, someone's going to be really mad at you for either standing on their foreskin, or enraged about health considerations, hygiene, the procedure itself, consent and ethics, and last but not least, the sexual effects of circumcision.

Circumcision isn't standard operating practice (that's weenie SOP) in most parts of the world. However dear readers, seeing an uncut cock in good old American porn is becoming more common as routine infant circumcision in the United States is becoming more of a question than a given — not just from the debates, but due to an increasingly vocal male populace who aren't cool with having their bodies altered before they could consent. More than just telling you that uncut penis does not necessarily equal European porn, I'm saying that it's not just parents and health orgs raising heated questions about it. A lot of grown-up guys are openly wondering if something's ... missing from their sex lives.

Most circumcised male foreskins are fairly mobile when the penis is erect, but may be too tight to slide up to, or around the head of the penis. That's one major difference in understanding pleasure principle differentials between cut and uncut men. Uncircumcised men have a "turtleneck" of skin richly endowed with nerve endings inside a thin, slippery mucosal layer that covers the unerect penis and slides back to reveal the tip when the member is at fill tilt, so to speak. This layer of skin can be pretty movable and slidey at most stages of arousal, and is basically the uncut penis' own pre-loaded sex toy.

It's those nerve endings that everyone's wondering about. While working at a sex toy store, selling sex toys for boys and condoms alike, I'd routinely get questions about what sex toys might be better or more fun for uncircumcised men, and what condoms were recommended for those with intact foreskins. The overview of advice and recommendations we'd give was that because the head of the uncircumcised penis is often described as more sensitive than the shaft, some toys might feel more intense.

We were going on our training, guidance from health professionals and our extended education — but also relied heavily on the feedback of male customers. Some male masturbation sleeves, for instance, have a rougher texture inside than others and this can feel irritating to uncut men, or just really intense — and that's not to say that some men won't like the intensity of the feeling. For the most part, we'd explain, male sex toys are fairly universal in application, just different in experience.

Our uncut customers would report back to us and inform our experience: We discovered that lots of uncircumcised guys really liked the newer condoms with wide pouches — like the Inspiral and Pleasure Plus lines. By the same token, circumcised men really liked these condoms more than most, too — but our uncircumcised patrons told us often enough that they had to make sure there was enough lubricant inside the condom tip because the extra sensitivity the condoms provide both partners would leave the guys feeling the burn — literally — after extended use.

Near the end of his essay Festa asks:

"I've heard people complain that their intact partners were too quick to orgasm, or were so sensitive they could barely be touched by another person. These are problems I'm not happy to share. So what are we, what I'm calling the silent and ambivalent circumcised majority, really missing?"

As a sex educator I can describe it to you, but as a girl I can't ever really know — and possibly, neither can the cut or the uncut. All I can do is to ask you to please not step on the foreskin. Unless he asks you really nicely.

Get your copy of the outstanding nonfiction anthology "Best Sex Writing 2008" by Rachel Kramer Bussel (rachelkramerbussel.com) at your outlet of choice; you can support local indie publisher Cleis Press by ordering it direct from the publisher's Web site. Full disclosure: One of my columns, "Kink.com and Porn Hysteria: The Lie of Unbiased Reporting" was honorably selected for inclusion in the collection.
Violet Blue

Violet Blue is author and editor of nearly two dozen sexual health books and erotica collections. She is a professional sex educator, lecturer, podcaster, blogger, vlogger, porn/erotica reviewer and machine artist. She has written for outlets ranging from Forbes.com to O, The Oprah Magazine.

Violet is also a fetish model, a member of Survival Research Labs, an author at Metblogs San Francisco; girl friday contributor at Fleshbot.com, a San Francisco native and a Forbes Web Celeb. Her tech site is Techyum; her audio and e-books are at Digita Publications.

For more information and links to Web sites discussed in Open Source Sex, go to Violet Blue's Web site, tinynibbles.com.

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Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Child brides 'sold' in Afghanistan

In northern Afghanistan it appears some parents are being driven by poverty and hunger to marry off their daughters at an early age. Jenny Cuffe investigates for Radio 4's Seven Days.

Wandian market
In Wandian's market place, farmers complain they have little to sell
Farida (not her real name) was paid 40,000 Afghani (£400) last summer for marrying her 13-year-old daughter to her father's 20-year-old cousin.

The child, her freckled face half hidden behind a blue veil, says she does not like her husband, and begins to cry.

"I didn't want to marry, it was my parents' decision," she said. "I dreamed I would be able to finish my education. I had no choice."

Asked why she is making her daughter unhappy, Farida replies simply: "It is her life, it is her fate."

Badakhshan's independent MP Fauzia Kofi says she has seen an increasing number of such child brides in the last two years.

"I don't call it marriage, I call it selling children," she says.

"A nine or 10-year-old - you give her away for wheat and two cows."

High prices

The cause of the trend, according to Fauzia Kofi, is poverty.

Badakhshan
Farida and her daughter live in the village of Wandian, high in the mountains of Badakhshan and a fortnight's journey by donkey from the nearest big town, Faizabad.

Badakhshan deputy governor Dr Mohammed Zarif reports 60 deaths from cold and hunger and the loss of 7,000 livestock over the five months that the district has been cut off from the rest of the world by snow.

Meanwhile, some food in the local market has doubled in price in the last year - a result both of Badakhshan's inaccessibility, and of global food shortages.

The British aid agency, Oxfam, has brought them vegetable seeds and fertiliser, but villagers in Wandian say their oxen have died and they need a plough.

Hanufa
Midwife Hanufa Mah had to help a 10-year-old girl in labour

Fauzia Kofi believes child marriages will only end if Badakhshan gets investment to reduce poverty, and more help to improve the food supply.

A midwife in the village of Khordakhan, Hanufa Mah, agrees that alleviating poverty is key.

She says she tries to teach parents not to marry their girls too young but some feel they have no choice.

One girl she helped through labour was only 10 years old.

"The girl was so small. I held her in my lap until the child was born," she says.

UN figures show that more women die in childbirth in Badakhshan than anywhere else in the world, and mothers under the age of 15 are most at risk.

No quick fix

Afghanistan's finance minister Anwar al-haq Ahadi does not, however, expect regions such as Badakhshan to be lifted out of poverty quickly.

"I'm afraid it's going to take quite a while... what we're trying to do now is just the very basics.

"Right now we are the fourth or fifth poorest country in the world.

"We hope we will move in ranking by another two or three steps, but still, Afghanistan in five years from now will be a very poor country."

The outlook for girls in Afghanistan's remote villages appears bleak then, especially if global food shortages continue.

Their hopes of education are likely to be frustrated, and they will continue to face the hazards of early pregnancy.

To hear the full story Listen again to Seven Days... In Afghanistan.

Just Like Penguins And Other Primates, People Trade Sex For Resources

ScienceDaily (Apr. 15, 2008) — Female penguins mate with males who bring them pebbles to build egg nests. Hummingbirds mate to gain access to the most productive flowers guarded by larger males.


New research shows that even affluent college students who don't need resources will still attempt to trade sexual currency for provisions, said Daniel Kruger, research scientist at the University of Michigan School of Public Health.

The exchange of resources for sex---referred to by scientists as nuptial gifts---has occurred throughout history in many species, including humans, Kruger said. The male of the species offers protection and resources to the female and offspring in exchange for reproductive rights. For example, an arranged marriage can be considered a contract to trade resources.

However, the recent findings suggest that such behaviors are hard wired, and persist no matter how much wealth, resources or security that people obtain.

"It's remarkable to find these patterns in the students in the study," Kruger said. "We have seen many examples where people do this out of necessity, but we still see these tendencies in people who are already well provided for."

In addition, there are predictable, sexual differences in the types of exchanges attempted. Men are more likely to attempt to exchange investment for sex, females were more likely to attempt to exchange sex for investment, Kruger said.

For the study, researchers interviewed 475 U-M undergraduate students to discover if they attempted exchanges in reproductively relevant currencies outside of dating or formally committed relationships, and if they were aware of attempts others tried with them. While the study population was limited to students, these types of exchanges happen all over the world in different cultures and species, he said.

The majority of students were well aware of their own attempts to trade reproductive currency, Kruger said. However, if they were in committed relationships, they did not view the partnership as trading in reproductive currencies, he said.

Overall, the strategy of attempting to exchange investment for sex is only successful about 25 percent of the time, the paper found. Some of the attempted trades included: tickets to the U-M versus Ohio State game; studying assistance; laundry washed; a Louis Vuitton bag; and voice lessons among other things.

Students in the study were 18-26 years old. For exchange attempts made, 27 percent of men and 14 percent of women reported attempts to trade investment for sex, 5 percent of men and 9 percent of women reported attempts to trade sex for investment. Of exchange attempts initiated by others, 14 percent of men and 20 percent of women reported that someone else attempted to trade investment for sex with them, and 8 percent of men and 5 percent of women reported that someone else attempted to trade sex for their investment.

A sample of older individuals, especially one that is more representative of the general population, would likely report higher frequencies of experiences, Kruger said. The assumption is an older population would have more unmet needs and would be more sexually active.

In fact, Kruger said the findings were remarkable in that any exchanges were reported at all, considering the subjects' youth and affluence---in other words, they don't want for much yet they still attempt these exchanges.

"The confirmation of hypothetical predictions regarding these exchanges once again demonstrates the power of an evolutionary framework for understanding human psychology and behavior," Kruger said.

The paper "Young Adults Attempt Exchanges in Reproductively Relevant Currencies," appears this month in the Journal of Evolutionary Psychology.

Adapted from materials provided by University of Michigan.

Monday, April 14, 2008